My Secret to Simplify Life

Life is simple. 

It really is. 

It's us who make it complicated. 

I know what you are saying, 

"Yeah, right. You don't live my life. Its complicated!" 

Ok, ok. I hear you. Just take a deep breath, sit for 5 minutes, and I will let you in on my little secret on how to simplify. 

Many years ago I was introduced to a book called The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. I honestly can't remember who told me about it first, but random people kept coming into my life and saying I should read this book. Well, when that happens I take it as a sign that I should listen so finally I gave in, and went into a Barnes & Noble picked the book up off the shelf and started reading it right there in the store.  An hour later, I finished it, I couldn't put it down and I have found myself quoting it to friends, family and colleagues for years ever since. 

The book reveals a source of self limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering in our lives. If we all just followed what this book suggests, life would be incredibly simple. 

Let me stop trying to explain and just let you decide for yourself. 

The following is straight from the jacket of the book. 

1. BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD

Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. 

2. DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering. 

3. DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. 

4. ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstances, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse, and regret. 

Simple right? But incredibly hard to follow. Especially #2 and #3...for me anyway. 

The book is a fast read. Each agreement is a chapter, but Ruiz also talks about the domestication of the planet, breaking old habits, how to have heaven on earth...

Don't be afraid. This isn't a religion. It is wisdom of his family. He was raised in rural Mexico by his mother and grandfather, who were healers of esoteric ancient Toltec knowledge.  

No more explaining. Experience it yourself and try to follow it. I'm still trying. I have the above jacket cover framed in my house. 

Know this...if this isn't the first time hearing about this book, take it as a sign and find a way to get it & read it.

This is my gift to you. 

Simple. 

Namaste, my friends.